Friday, May 31, 2024

Five Minute Friday/May Rhythm - Just Passing Through

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One word. Five minutes to write about it. This is the idea behind Five Minute Friday and this is today's free-writing post.


work through it
through the looking-glass
just passing through

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Not that long ago I had a bit of a revelation. It hit me that maybe the reason I don't ever get around to properly organizing some of the stuff on my bathroom counter or on the top of my dresser is that subconsciously I don't want to acknowledge that I'm staying in this apartment long-term. Silly, right? We moved here almost 18 months ago, and we signed a lease renewal that will keep us here for about another year at least. All the areas of the place that guests would see are pretty well organized as if we actually live here, but in the privacy of my room I still want to feel like it's somewhat temporary. Like I'm just passing through. 

You don't live on the earth, you are passing through it. ~Rumi

I think when it comes to my living space, it's probably not good for me to avoid putting down a few roots and feeling settled. But there is something valuable in remembering that my stay in this world is relatively temporary in view of eternity. This world is not my home, I'm just passing through, as the saying goes. Knowing that the time may be short helps us get our priorities right. Trusting God to keep his promises helps us to live at peace no matter what our circumstances. Knowing God is still in control helps us keep our perspective no matter what we're going through.

We are reminded how short life really is, and how we are just passing through. So, all the people you haven't told you love lately, tell them, and live your days like you mean it. ~Hal Sutton

LORD, remind me how brief my time on earth will be.
Remind me that my days are numbered―
how fleeting my life is.
You have made my life no longer than the width of my hand.
My entire lifetime is just a moment to you;
at best, each of us is but a breath.
Hear my prayer, O LORD!
Listen to my cries for help!
Don't ignore my tears.
For I am your guest―
a traveler passing through,
as my ancestors were before me.
~Psalm 39:4-5, 12~

 
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I decided that Rhythm would be my WOTY and one way I'm trying to establish a rhythm is by keeping a very brief daily diary, to watch for daily and weekly patterns to develop and to be intentional about keeping the good ones going. I do like the rhythm of writing a phrase or sentence about each day and making it into a summary post. I realized that the weekdays are very much the same - a repeating rhythm! - so this month I've summarized by week.

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Week One

May began in the middle of a week, on a Wednesday, and we kicked it off with something a bit special. We went to a Columbus Clippers game with family. It was a perfect night for a baseball game! The rest of the week was just the usual work, and on Saturday I got my hair cut, cleaned out my pantry, baked muffins, and did the grocery shopping.



Week Two

We were both on worship team this Sunday, so that was good. We picked up subs for lunch. Hubby's hockey game was cancelled so he got home early and we went for a walk. Walking together is a rhythm we want to establish so that felt good! Monday started out as just a regular day, but in the evening as I was rushing out the door to chorus, I noticed that the ducklings must have hatched during the afternoon! I was fine with being a little late so I could take some pictures. Oh, and I sang in the auditions quartet for a new member, which was very fun! Remainder of the week was just the regular rhythm of work days, but we also walked over to the pond to check on the ducklings. We finished this week with a trip to a local food truck festival on Saturday.



Week Three

Happy Mothers Day! Church in the morning, light lunch made my hubby and a nap in the afternoon, and dinner with the kids later in the day. In the evening I baked bread and prepped food for Monday, and of course I called my mom! I did leave work a bit early on Monday so I could get to chorus on time - it was our year end dinner. Thursday was also a year-end occasion - the last day of the co-op class I taught! That evening, hubby and I went to a Brit Floyd show in the city. I'm not really a fan of the music, but hey, it's a date night and in exchange hubby is going to go with me to an event of my choice! Saturday capped off the week with a very busy day. I got up early and spent the morning downtown volunteering at the Race for the Cure, then I spent the afternoon with the kids at Buckeye Lake. We met my husband at Timbuk Farms when he was done work and our granddaughter could play at the fun farm there. We got pizza for dinner to end the day.





Week Four

After church on Sunday we went out with friends for our 55+ Dinner Club, then had a long afternoon nap. The rhythm of the week was quite regular to start with, but we switched things up by driving to Maryland on Thursday evening. We both had taken Friday off so we could have a bit of extra time on the long weekend. The tempo was more energetic on the weekend! We spent time with the family on Friday, including worship team practice that evening. We got together with some friends on Saturday during the day, and after dinner with friends, we met up with some of the kids to walk around Gettysburg a bit and get some ice cream. 




Week Five

If Sunday is sets the tempo for the new week, this one was a bit different. We went to our Maryland church and it was good to connect with old friends there. That evening we went to a cookout hosted by our daughter's boyfriend and family. Everyone had the day off on Monday so we set a relaxed pace to packing up and getting on the road back home. We tried to get right back into the usual swing of things with work on Tuesday through the end of the week, but as usual on short work weeks, it felt a little off  beat sometimes. Especially Wednesday evening. Instead of Dinner + Discipleship at church, we went to a baseball game with church friends . . . except the game was rained out. Not quite the last day of the month, but funny how May was bookended with two contrasting baseball game experiences!





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 Rhythm is my Word of The Year for 2024 because I realized I'd need to adjust my routines and work on my time management as I started a full time work schedule, and I couldn't be striving or fighting all the time - I need to establish a healthy, balanced rhythm to my days and weeks. And additionally, in the last part of 2023, I felt like God had really been speaking to me about the subject of Sabbath, and that he was inviting me to be more intentional about practicing and celebrating a Sabbath rhythm in my life. Here's my WOTY post to explain: WQ - Rhythm Inspires

 

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And of course, this post is linked at Five Minute Friday for the word prompt "Through".


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Thursday, May 30, 2024

Monthly Musings - WQ: Summertime

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Holly at Pink Lady and Patty at Good Better Best co-host this monthly sharing of tips, tricks, and conversation starters. While I was musing about these, I collected some quotes about summer so I could add my WQ musings to the same post.


What are you looking forward to this summer?
Our vacation and weekend plans are all still rather vague, but I am looking forward to doing a little bit of traveling and spending summer days with family and friends. 

Favorite summer traditions:
I can't really think of any specifically summer traditions we have, other than what I'm starting to refer to as "Fireworks Week". We celebrate Canada Day on July 1st, and Independence Day on July 4th, and our daughter's birthday is that week as well. We love fireworks so planning where to see fireworks shows is a summer tradition I enjoy.



Favorite summer recipe? Please share!
We like to grill and smoke during the summer so those are favorite summer recipes. Last year I made chicken salad for the first time in many years and I really liked the recipe I used. I plan to make another big batch this weekend, I think. 


Summer vacation plans?
As I said, nothing is firmed up yet, but we are going to try renting a cabin or vacation home and have the whole family join us. We have tentative dates to work with and have narrowed down some of the options, so hopefully we can make that work! My husband and I are also still toying with the idea of going out west to meet up with some friends for a long weekend or something. Don't know if that will happen or not. The one thing we have planned that does at least have a firm date is a trip back to Maryland for my husband to play in a hockey tournament in July.

Cole slaw or potato salad? Recipe to share?
I don't like cole slaw at all, and really don't care for potato salad either.

Favorite ice cream or frozen treat?
How would I ever choose a favorite? I love ice cream of all descriptions. Nothing like a good hot fudge Sundae.

Beach, lake, or mountains?
My preference would be the mountains, but I suspect I'd be overruled by the family. I like the beach but I don't absolutely adore it. That said, I can find things to love about any vacation destination!

Best ways to beat the heat in summer?
Air conditioning! Haha! Sitting on a shady porch if there's a little bit of a breeze and it's not too muggy.With a cold drink in hand, of course.

Favorite sunscreen?
I don't have a favorite, but I kind of prefer a spray-on to a lotion.

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I'm participating in the Wednesday Quotes link-up hosted by Marsha at Always Write and decided to just add a few quotes and thoughts about summer to my Monthly Musings post. I mean, I'm musing on summer anyway, so it makes sense! (Marsha has decided to choose themes for her posts as she goes, and has invited those of us who participate to simply include a quote in our post and choose our own themes as well.)

The sun does not shine for a few trees and flowers, but for the wide world's joy. ~Henry Ward Beecher




Rest is not idleness, and to lie sometimes on the grass under trees on a summer's day, listening to the murmur of the water, or watching the clouds float across the sky, is by no means a waste of time. ~John Muir




Summer's lease hath all too short a date. ~William Shakespeare


Summer is a promissory note signed in June, its long days spent and gone before you know it, and due to be repaid next January. ~Hal Borland


I don't know if you're like me and each year you find yourself looking at the end of August on your calendar, and wondering where the summer went. So many plans for things we wanted to do but it seems like summer is always over too quickly. Enjoy every moment, and know that the season will come round again!

As long as the earth endures, seedtime and harvest, cold and heat, summer and winter, day and night will never cease.
~Genesis 8:22~




Wednesday Quotes 2024 is hosted by Marsha at Always Write. See what we're inspired by this week: WQ#171: Family Matters and Inspires


What are some of your musings on summer? Leave a comment and let me know!

I'm linking up with Monthly Musings hosted by Holly at Pink Lady and Patty at Good Better Best.



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Wednesday, May 29, 2024

Wednesday Hodgepodge - Adulting Hodgepodge Style

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A hodgepodge is a jumble or assortment of things that might not appear to belong together. Joyce at From This Side of the Pond hosts a weekly link-up called Wednesday Hodgepodge that is a little collection of questions for bloggers to answer just for fun and to get to know each other. I always look forward to chatting with friends over coffee, so pour a cup of your favorite and let's visit for a few minutes!



Here are this week's questions - and my answers - for this week's Wednesday Hodgepodge.

1.  Growing up, at what age did you think you'd become an adult? At what age did you actually become an adult?
 
I think eighteen was the "magical" age my friends and I looked forward to, because we'd be legal adults and able to buy alcohol, so that was what I thought as a teen. I don't remember if I had a different age in mind when I was a kid. I got married when I was twenty, but I think I felt like I was truly an adult when I turned twenty-five. But to be honest, there are still times now, in my late fifties, when I'm not sure I'm actually an adult. Haha. 
 
2. What's a favorite item you've bought this year?
 
I was going to say the flannel shacket that I love, but I bought that in December. Hmm. Let me think a bit more . . . The squirrel-proof bird feeder? Or maybe the cosmetic travel bag that has really helped me keep my makeup much better organized? 

 

3. May 28th is National Hamburger Day . . . are you a fan? If so, how do you like yours? When was the last time you had a hamburger? Besides the backyard grill, what's your favorite place to go for a burger?

 I love hamburgers, but didn't have one at all on the 28th! I like my burgers cooked medium well, and topped with cheese and maybe bacon or a couple of pickles. No lettuce, tomato, onion though. I vary the condiments depending on where I'm eating and what I feel like that day, so it could be mayo/ketchup/mustard or Thousand Island dressing or barbecue sauce. My first choice for a fast food burger is Five Guys, but we don't go there often. I had a delicious cheeseburger on Sunday evening at a cookout. Completely homemade!

4. How have your priorities changed over time?

 I'm not sure. I think my most important things have been my most important things for many years, but I'm sure I've adjusted how I allot my time and money to those important things. In general, I don't stress as much over how stuff looks or if it's exactly right. The best example I can think of is spending time with friends and family. It's always been a priority, but I've learned to just spend the time with people and spend less time and energy worrying about having the house perfect or a meal perfect and elegantly plated. The house is never going to be perfect, and I've learned that hospitality is making people feel welcomed and comfortable, not about impressing them. 


5.  What's one thing on your June calendar you're really looking forward to?
 
I haven't got many specific things lined up on the calendar yet! My husband will have more Saturdays free so we should be able to do some more fun things on the weekends. We haven't decided when we'll do it, but one of the Metro Parks just competed a new canopy walk that we're looking forward to visiting. The pool in our neighborhood is open, so I guess I'm looking forward to having the kids over for swim days too.

 
6. Insert your own random thought here.

On the long weekend we went to Maryland for a visit. Saw some friends and had a great time with the kids and our sweet granddaughter. 




How is adulting going for you these days? Leave a comment and let me know!


I'm sharing in this week's Wednesday Hodgepodge at From This Side of the Pond.

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Tuesday, May 28, 2024

Twenty-Six Lists - It's A Family Tradition

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Welcome to Twenty-Six Lists! I hope you'll join me in this simple link-up, where I share a writing prompt for some kind of list, and invite you to share what's on your list. Your list can be very simple or include lots of explanation; short or long; a bullet point list or essay style. Interpret the list prompts however you like, depending on how much time you have to spend, and how much background you'd like to share. 

The list I was planning for this week is all about family traditions. It's so interesting to see the personalized twist that different families put on their celebrations, or the things that have become beloved traditions with loved ones. Some are very meaningful and some are just silly and fun. They can be elaborate customs we have for celebrating holidays or simple everyday rituals like bedtime stories or a special table grace.  Many people don't realize they've developed their own family traditions, or think their traditions are really no different from what everyone else does. But really, any custom that we carry over from our family or make a part of our family because it's what we want our family to become - that's a family tradition. 

The first time I wrote this list quite a few years ago, I organized the things I considered our family traditions around the occasions and calendar that the traditions were related to, so I'm updating that list and modifying it a bit here. I can't wait to read about other family traditions!

Our Family Traditions:

  • Birthdays - One of our birthday traditions goes back to some point during my on teen years, when my siblings and I started purposely butchering the "Happy Birthday" song for each other. That eventually became a tradition for our entire extended family - my parents and my siblings and their families. We used to phone the birthday celebrant, gather around the phone and put it on speaker (we've made a video once or twice), and the whole family attempts to sing the most horrendous version of the birthday song that we can. We do awful "harmonies" and sing at all different tempos and times, and try to make each rendition more hilariously ugly than the last. This very silly tradition seems to be a favorite and keeps us all laughing! 
  • School and Graduations - Even though we homeschooled, I did try to get "first day of school" photos each year. The boys were not always co-operative, and I didn't always get the photos, but I tried. For high school graduation, we allowed the graduate to choose the destination for that summer's family vacation. Harrison took us all to the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame and Cedar Point. Spencer wanted to visit my family in Alberta and we added a few days at Glacier National Park and some other attractions in the area as well. Landon wanted to go back to Cedar Point, and also attend baseball games, so we saw games in Columbus, Cleveland, Pittsburgh, and Toronto. Kennady wanted to visit conservatories so we visited the Franklin Conservatory in Columbus, the Phipps in Pittsburgh, and made day trips to Longwood Gardens, the Botanical Gardens in DC, and the conservatory in Baltimore. My posts The Summer of Landon and Homeschool Highlights - The Week With Conservatories over on Homeschool Coffee Break summarize Landon's and Kennady's grad year vacations.

The Summer of Landon - A Baseball PhotoJournal on Homeschool Coffee Break @ kympossibleblog.blogspot.com 


  • Thanksgiving - we celebrate Thanksgiving on both the Canadian and the US dates, and usually there's a deep-fried turkey on at least one of those occasions. As the kids got older and found Significant Others, we found that it was easier to allow them to spend Thanksgiving with their "other" family if we made our family's big day in October. The last few years I've also tried to invite friends to celebrate Canadian Thanksgiving with us and honor the history of the Order of Good Cheer. 
  • Another tradition that began in my childhood is a family picture at the dinner table (definitely at Thanksgiving, but often at Christmas as well) with a goofy twist! When I was a kid my mom tried to get pictures of everyone at the dinner table on holidays, and we kids would always try to "ruin" it by freezing with a forkful of food halfway into our mouth, or with a drinking glass to our lips. At first Mom was frustrated with us, but the pictures turned out so funny that it became a traditional holiday picture pose, and now my own family does it enthusiastically.




  • Christmas - some of these traditions have been changing as the kids became adults, but my husband and I still like to watch A Christmas Carol (the Alistair Sim version) on Christmas Eve, and It's A Wonderful Life on Christmas Day. As a family w used to try to watch Christmas movies and specials together throughout the season, and it was kind of special because we didn't watch TV as a family much during the rest of the year. When it comes to decorating, we start decorating for Christmas on Thanksgiving, and I insist on keeping the tree up until Epiphany.
Other Traditions:
  • we have a family Stanley Cup play-off pool.
  • we share musical interests and we used to attend concert festivals such as Kingom Bound or UpRise together, and have gone to other concerts as a family as well. Obviously, as we've grown and spread out, we don't do that as often. For many years, our family was the core of one of the worship teams at our church, so playing music together was a family tradition too. Now that my husband and I have moved, Kennady and Landon continue heading up the worship team at their church, with Spencer as the sound tech, and my husband and I are now involved on the worship team at our church. It's a real treat for us to play with our kids sometimes when we go to Maryland for a visit, like this past Memorial Day weekend.
  • family dinner was a standard in our family. Believe it or not, even when we had four young adults living at home, and everyon had their own work and school schedules and social lives, eating dinner as family still happened with great regularity. It was an almost daily custom and a simple thing that I cherished. Gathering around the table is a time-honored custom of fellowship and togetherness, and it can really bond a family. It was our privilege to also welcome 'auxiliary kids' to our family mealtimes regularly and consider them part of our family. Even our simple "Bye! Love you!" as someone headed out the door became a sort of parting blessing for all of us. 

We build deep and loving family relationships by doing simple things together, like family dinner and family home evening and by just having fun together. ~Dieter F. Uchtdorf

What family traditions are meaningful to you? Please share.

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If you'd like to think further ahead, you can find the list of all prompts for the 2024 Edition of Twenty-Six Lists on A Fresh Cup of Coffee here: Twenty-Six Lists - Accomplishments and Goals

Bonus List: The next few list prompts so you can think ahead!

June 11 - Summery Menu
June 25 - To See or Do in Your Hometown
July 9 - Vacation Destinations
July 23 - Sports

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Sunday, May 26, 2024

Scripture and a Snapshot - He Lifted Me


I waited patiently for the LORD;
he turned to me and heard my cry.
He lifted me out of the slimy pit,
out of the mud and mire;
he set my feet on a rock
and gave me a firm place to stand.
He put a new song in my mouth,
a hymn of praise to our God.
Many will see and fear the LORD
and put their trust in him.

Many, LORD my God,
are the wonders you have done,
the things you planned for us.
None can compare with you;
were I to speak and tell of your deeds,
they would be too many to declare.

~Psalm 40:1-3, 5~





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