I think eighteen was the "magical" age my friends and I looked forward to, because we'd be legal adults and able to buy alcohol, so that was what I thought as a teen. I don't remember if I had a different age in mind when I was a kid. I got married when I was twenty, but I think I felt like I was truly an adult when I turned twenty-five. But to be honest, there are still times now, in my late fifties, when I'm not sure I'm actually an adult. Haha.
I was going to say the flannel shacket that I love, but I bought that in December. Hmm. Let me think a bit more . . . The squirrel-proof bird feeder? Or maybe the cosmetic travel bag that has really helped me keep my makeup much better organized?
I love hamburgers, but didn't have one at all on the 28th! I like my burgers cooked medium well, and topped with cheese and maybe bacon or a couple of pickles. No lettuce, tomato, onion though. I vary the condiments depending on where I'm eating and what I feel like that day, so it could be mayo/ketchup/mustard or Thousand Island dressing or barbecue sauce. My first choice for a fast food burger is Five Guys, but we don't go there often. I had a delicious cheeseburger on Sunday evening at a cookout. Completely homemade!
I'm not sure. I think my most important things have been my most important things for many years, but I'm sure I've adjusted how I allot my time and money to those important things. In general, I don't stress as much over how stuff looks or if it's exactly right. The best example I can think of is spending time with friends and family. It's always been a priority, but I've learned to just spend the time with people and spend less time and energy worrying about having the house perfect or a meal perfect and elegantly plated. The house is never going to be perfect, and I've learned that hospitality is making people feel welcomed and comfortable, not about impressing them.
I haven't got many specific things lined up on the calendar yet! My husband will have more Saturdays free so we should be able to do some more fun things on the weekends. We haven't decided when we'll do it, but one of the Metro Parks just competed a new canopy walk that we're looking forward to visiting. The pool in our neighborhood is open, so I guess I'm looking forward to having the kids over for swim days too.
On the long weekend we went to Maryland for a visit. Saw some friends and had a great time with the kids and our sweet granddaughter.
How is adulting going for you these days? Leave a comment and let me know!
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ReplyDeleteI agree, I will be 50 this coming birthday and I am not sure I am 100% to adulthood. Hee Hee!
it's strange that I can feel like I'm still a young adult and figuring things out while simultaneously feeling the age-related aches and pains of getting close to 60! LOL Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
DeleteMy daughter has a collection of Adulting stickers for her planner. "I put on a bra today" is one, and "I'm not adulting today" is another lol. I enjoyed reading your post, your granddaughter is adorable!
ReplyDeleteOh that's so funny! I think adulting stickers would be a good motivator for me! Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
DeleteI'm stopping by from the Hodgepodge. I'm in my 50's and agree that sometimes I still don't feel like an adult. :)
ReplyDeleteAre we really only as old as we feel? If so, my "age" changes a lot! Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
DeleteOur pool has been open for a few weeks but the air hasn't been consistently hot enough for me to be tempted. I haven't been in the lake yet either, although it's always warmer than the pool. We bought paddle boards this year and I told my hubs I wasn't getting on it until the lake is warm enough for me to fall : ) Have a nice rest of the week!
ReplyDeleteI agree - it needs to be more consistently summer-like warm before I'll really want to get in the pool. And today it was cool and rainy so that delayed my interest in it until at least NEXT weekend! Thanks for stopping by and commentng!
DeleteSounds like a great time catching up in Maryland. Fun photos. Happy end of May to you!
ReplyDeleteWe had a wonderful time in Maryland - even though I didn't take many photos! Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
DeleteAs I have become more sure of myself, I have for sure put more priority on friends and family. Almost like that means more now.
ReplyDeleteI think we realize more how important family and friends really are. Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
DeleteGlad you got to visit with family. I enjoyed your answers.
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