Wednesday, July 15, 2026

Deep Summer Hodgepodge


A hodgepodge is a jumble or assortment of things that might not appear to belong together. Joyce at From This Side of the Pond hosts a weekly link-up called Wednesday Hodgepodge that is a little collection of questions for bloggers to answer just for fun and to get to know each other. I always look forward to chatting with friends over coffee, so pour a cup of your favorite and let's visit for a few minutes!



Here are this week's questions - and my answers - for this week's Wednesday Hodgepodge.

1.  "Deep summer is when laziness finds respectability." Sam Keen

Do you feel less guilty relaxing in July than you do in January? Elaborate.
 
I had to think about this, because at first it seemed like my inclination is to feel guilty about relaxing no matter the season, but that's not quite true. I feel guilty about relaxing when I am being lazy or procrastinating and there is something I should be doing but I'm just not. But that's not "relaxing" - that is being lazy. So a more thoughtful answer is that I am less inclined to feel guilty about kicking back and taking it easy in July than in January. While there may be just as much on my to-do list in either season these days, in July it's hot and humid, and taking a break to put up my feet and have a cold drink is more necessary and I do not (or should not) feel bad about resting and enjoying myself. 
 
2. What's a telltale sign you're upset?

I don't think this is noticeable to others, but when I am stressed or anxious about something my hands itch - or at least I act like they do. If I'm scratching the backs of my hands or clenching and unclenching my hands sort of reflexively, it's likely that I'm anxious or upset about something. Not necessarily upset as in angry, but a more general upset. Now that I've outed myself, anyone reading that knows me in person will probably be watching for me to do this now. haha

3. July 16th is National AI Day. What are your general thoughts and/or experiences with AI? Have you purposely used it? Does it excite you, scare you, or worry you? What do you see as a benefit? How about something relating to AI you see as a negative?

 I suspect I'm not alone in having a lot of mixed feelings about AI. I don't have a lot of experience with it, though I've used it to assist in writing some business-type communications, to search and compile information for me, and we've had some fun using the AI photo editing tools in our family messenger groups. What I like about AI and see as positive or as a benefit, is that information can be easily searched and aggregated. It is a moment's work to type a query into an AI tool and get statistics, historical data, overviews of legal documents, summaries of news stories or long articles, and more. Yes, you still should use your own common sense about the information it gives you, but with these kinds of powerful Q&A tools, there is no reason to remain ignorant or to believe lies. That said, there are aspects of AI that are deeply concerning as well. The big overarching question: Are there guardrails in place to keep AI in the place of a tool instead of becoming our "master"? There are plenty of stories circulating about AI being used to generate very convincing but fake photos and videos and the mischief people get up to. AI can be used to duplicate voices, and I know someone who came very close to being scammed by a bad actor who had sampled and duplicated a family member's voice and it was very convincing and scary. So this is an area that we as a society need to get a handle on. Like every tool, it can be used for good or for evil, and we need to deal with that reality. 

On a slightly lighter note, but still an area of concern, I wonder whether art or music or literature produced by AI will help and hamper human creativity. There's a ton of AI slop in social media, and so far it seems like AI is hit or miss in terms of producing good creative writing. We already have a lot of digital art and digital tools being used in music, but if anyone can plug some prompts into an AI tool and produce a beautiful "painting" or "photo" or quality piece of music, does that take away from the talented artists among us using their skills and their ability to earn their living in that way? I'm on the fence about that. But I will leave you with a song written using AI, "sung" by AI generated persona Solomon Ray. Personally, I love Solomon Ray music, by the way. I think the creator behind Solomon Ray, Christopher Townsend, made a strong case for how and why he uses AI with this song. 

 

4.  You're invited to a summer pot luck and are asked to bring an appetizer, salad/side, or dessert. Which category do you go for and what are you bringing?

 I used to always choose dessert if I had the option, but my favorite dessert to bring is Nanaimo Bars and if the pot luck is outdoors, the Nanaimo Bars won't fare much better than ice cream! Nowadays, I'll often bring an appetizer in the form of a charcuterie, or a salad. Either chicken salad or a Caprese salad platter.



 

5.  It wouldn't be summer without ___________________________.

 Sunshine. Hot dogs on the grill. Vacation. Baseball. 


6. Insert your own random thought here.

The last few days have not gone according to our plan. My husband developed pain from a kidney stone on Friday afternoon, spent that night and most of Saturday at the hospital, and still isn't feeling well. The surgery to remove the stone was unsuccessful, so he has to go back in about a week for another procedure. It's crazy that such a tiny pebble in the wrong place can cause so much pain! 

Are you enjoying some deep summer relax time? Leave a comment and let me know!


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Tuesday, July 14, 2026

The Flower Hour - Catching Up with the Floral ABCs


Since I missed the first week of the Floral ABCs, I looked through some photos and found representatives of the first three letters to share today.

Anthurium

 Anthurium is native to Central and South America, and often grows as an epiphyte on other plants. I photographed these at Franklin Park Conservatory.


Bittersweet Nightshade

Bittersweet Nightshade is one of the common names for Solanum dulcamara. It is native to Europe and Asia but has spread throughout the world. I found these in a wooded area of a park close to where we live. In the middle ages, nightshade was valued by herbalists and thought to be a protection against the 'evil eye'. Its berries are poisonous to humans and livestock, but not to birds.


Crown-of-Thorns

The Crown-of-Thorns or Christ's Thorn is a flowering plant native to Madagascar. Legend says it was introduced to the Middle East in ancient times, and that's why it is associated with the crown of thorns worn by Christ at his crucifixion. It is commonly grown as a houseplant, but I photographed this one at Franklin Park Conservatory.





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Sunday, July 12, 2026

Sunday Stills - Official and Unofficial Group Photos


This week's Sunday Stills theme is Groups. My family is my favorite group, and since we had our Big Family Vacation together last month, I happen to have some photos of the group to share.


One group activity that we all really enjoyed was a cruise on the Maid of the Mist at Niagara Falls.








Here are a few photos from last year's Big Family Vacation in Deep Creek, Maryland.




And from the 2024 Big Family Vacation in Hocking Hills, Ohio.











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Scripture and a Snapshot - Hiding Place



Then I acknowledged my sin to you
and did not cover up my iniquity.
I said, "I will confess
my transgressions to the LORD."
And you forgave
the guilt of my sin.

Therefore let all the faithful pray to you
while you may be found;
surely the rising of the mighty waters
 will not reach them.
You are my hiding place;
you will protect me from trouble
and surround me with songs of deliverance.

I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go;
I will counsel you with my loving eye on you.

Rejoice in the LORD and be glad, you righteous;
sing, all you who are upright in heart!

~Psalm 32:5-8, 11~








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Friday, July 10, 2026

10 on the 10th - The Cat Days of Summer


On the 10th of each month, Marsha In the Middle asks ten questions for us to answer in as much or little detail as we wish. It's been quite awhile since I joined in but here I am. You've heard of the dog days of summer, but Marsha has asked us to consider the cat days of summer by discussing our favorite ten cats.


My favorite cats are the ones that are or have been my own pets. 

1. Merida - she is our resident cat and is as sweet, gentle, and quiet a roommate as you can imagine. She likes who she likes but that's pretty much just us. haha. She's pretty timid most of the time so the moment someone comes in the house she disappears into one of her safe spaces and it's almost impossible to coax her out to meet anyone new or even to accept some loving attention from our granddaughter. Merida and her littermate Aurora were named for the Disney princesses, and Merida's name is ironic, because she really isn't Brave at all. The very first thing she did as a kitten when we brought them home was bolt and hide, and it took about 18 hours for us to find her. 







2. Aurora - Aurora is our daughter's cat, but we brought her and Merida home at the same time and assumed they were sisters. Turns out they are probably half sisters. Aurora is bigger and has a very different personality. She is very affectionate and laid back, and hardly ever runs away to hide. On the contrary she just stays put and tolerates whatever life brings her way. After we moved and chose to take Merida with us, Aurora became even more attached to our daughter and eventually moved with her, and settled in with the couple of resident cats already in that house. She is named for the princess known as Sleeping Beauty, probably for obvious reasons! 





3 - 5. Pepper, Blue, and Monkey - my previous pet cats. Well, Pepper was technically our daughter's but he was very well-loved by the whole family. He was a mischievous and energetic black cat and it seems like we all had different nicknames for him, including Karl and Nibbler. Pepper liked to play hide-and-seek and to 'box' with my husband. He died much too young, unfortunately. Monkey was the first cat my husband and I got after we got married, and he was a bit of a troublemaker, hence his name. He had a bad habit of getting up on counters and sampling sweets he found up there. He lived a long time; I think he was around 13 when he passed. His buddy for most of those years was Blue. Blue was a very young kitten when I got him and had barely finished nursing. He had been abandoned by his yard cat momma at the construction company where I worked at the time, so I had one of the guys take up a board from the fence so I could rescue him and take him home. He was another very affectionate, playful, and mischievous cat and lived a long time. He must have been around 13 as well when he passed. 





6.  General McTiger - I have to include this cat who belonged to my husband before he went to college. Despite my mother-in-law complaining that she didn't want to look after the cat, she was really very attached to him and even spent the money to have pins put in his broken leg after he was hit by a car! General had a distinctive raspy, low-pitched voice, and thought he was in charge of the whole household and we were all supposed to dance to his croaking tune. He even learned how to get attention when he was feeling ignored - he would stick out his formerly injured leg and act like it was paining him. But he didn't always remember which leg had been broken! He was a character.

7. Snickers - this was my best friend's cat and I have never encountered a more gregarious and outgoing cat. He begged for attention and schmoozed for pets and cuddles the way a dog would. He died in a house fire a few years ago. RIP Snickers.

I didn't get to ten, unfortunately. I thought about rounding out my list with a couple of my favorite fictional or cartoon cats, but that would have required me to rank them somehow. I'll just mention some that I especially like in no particular order. I loved the feline characters in The Aristocats - regal Duchess, charming Thomas O'Malley, and the precocious kittens. I felt bad for Sylvester that he never got the better of Tweety (I thought Tweety was super annoying). Oliver in Oliver + Company was adorable. Who remembers Morris who was the face and voice of 9 Lives cat food advertising? He cracked me up. And I know her creator insists she's not actually a cat, but isn't Hello Kitty the cutest? My daughter is a grown woman and loves all things Hello Kitty so I can't help but think of the character as part of my list of favorites. Let me leave you with the iconic ballad "Memory" from the musical Cats.

    

Are you a cat person or a dog person when it comes to pets? Leave a comment and let me know!

This post will be linked at Marsha In the Middle for the July Edition of 10 on the 10th.



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