Wednesday, May 20, 2026

A Balanced Wednesday Hodgepodge



A hodgepodge is a jumble or assortment of things that might not appear to belong together. Joyce at From This Side of the Pond hosts a weekly link-up called Wednesday Hodgepodge that is a little collection of questions for bloggers to answer just for fun and to get to know each other. I always look forward to chatting with friends over coffee, so pour a cup of your favorite and let's visit for a few minutes!


Here are this week's questions - and my answers - for this week's Wednesday Hodgepodge.

1.  What do you make more complicated than it needs to be?
 
Almost every project, at the start! The way I envision things I want to do begins with something pretty elaborate, which contributes to me procrastinating, because it's too daunting. The organization system I think I want in my pantry or my closet or my bookkeeping or even on my blog is too involved to be practical for me in the real world. And to be fair to myself, once I get started, I usually realize this pretty quickly and simplify. The most recent example that comes to mind was several months ago when I admitted to myself that once again the pretty calendar planner that I had such high hopes for was not practical for me. I was making it more complicated than it needed to be. So I made a promise to myself that I would never buy another planner, but would simply use undated notebooks or journals to keep track of my lists and appointments and notes in the most linear way possible.

Keep it simple!

2. What impresses you?

People who have worked hard, persevered, and focused to overcome huge challenges to achieve something amazing. Some of these people are written about in the history books, but there are many whose stories are not as well known, and yet they overcame the odds and made an impact. And we each know people around us who aren't famous but have conquered obstacles to succeed in their field, to master knowledge or skills, to recover after a tragedy, and more. Even more impressive when these people are also kind, gracious, generous, and joyful.

3. On a scale of 1-10 how picky of an eater are you? (1=extremely and 10=not at all) If you had to eat a meal made entirely of one color what color would you choose?

 I generally describe myself as a picky eater because I do have some pretty strict personal food rules around certain things. (I don't eat internal organs, fungus, things that crawl on the ocean floor, anything resembling or related to an insect, or anything that is looking back at me) But I'm usually willing to at least taste something new. So I'd give myself the number 3 or 4 on that scale. Definitely on the picky end of the spectrum, but I've got enough flexibility to try some new things.

I'm going to be completely practical and choose brown for my monochromatic meal. I think that gives me the most options because it could include meat, bread, potatoes, rice, pasta, gravy . . . vegetables might be an issue but I don't mind skipping them for one meal. Haha. I could drink coffee or tea or some soda. And perhaps most importantly, chocolate and caramel things could be considered for dessert.

See what I'm saying? Mostly brown for these meals and desserts:




 



4.  What does balance in life mean to you? Does your life currently feel 'balanced'?

 A balanced life has work and play, "have to" and "want to", busy-ness and rest in healthy proportions. Doing the things you need to do first and then having the freedom to enjoy leisure and hobbies. Balance is having the various areas of life properly ordered. For the most part my life feels pretty balanced, though as a life-long procrastinator, I do really struggle with that aspect of looking after the "have to" items before indulging in my personal "want to" items. So that gets out of balance quite often. The other area of my life that frequently gets out of balance is my sleep-wake cycle. I don't sleep well as it is, and I don't nearly always practice good sleep habits which exacerbates the problem.

5.  If you could travel the world for a year what would be your first destination?

 If I'm traveling for a whole year, I could visit a lot of the places on my wish list, but I think I would start with Iceland. I'm fascinated by its landscape that has geysers and hot springs as well as glaciers and waterfalls. And I'd obviously want to go during a time when the northern lights are at peak.

6. Insert your own random thought here.

I don't really have anything, but the question about balance reminded me of a WQ theme early last year called "In Balance". Here are a few highlights:


Life is a balance of holding on and letting go. ~Rumi

A well-developed sense of humor is the pole that adds balance to your steps as you walk the tightrope of life. ~William Arthur Ward


What are your best tips for keeping life in balance? Leave a comment and let me know!



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Tuesday, May 19, 2026

The Flower Hour - Glen Helen Nature Preserve


On Mother's Day weekend, we went to Glen Helen Nature Preserve in Yellow Springs. It was a pretty good day for hiking, warm and sunny but not sweltering and muggy like it will be later in summer. 










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Sunday, May 17, 2026

Scripture and a Snapshot - Because He First Loved Us



This is how we know that we live in him and he in us: He has given us of his Spirit. And we have seen and testify that the Father has sent his Son to be the Savior of the world. If anyone acknowledges that Jesus is the Son of God, God lives in them and they in God. And so we know and rely on the love God has for us.

God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them. This is how love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of judgment: In this world we are like Jesus. There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.

We love because he first loved us. Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen. And he has given this command: Anyone who loves God must also love their brother and sister.

~I John 4:13-21~





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Wednesday, May 13, 2026

Home For the Hodgepodge



A hodgepodge is a jumble or assortment of things that might not appear to belong together. Joyce at From This Side of the Pond hosts a weekly link-up called Wednesday Hodgepodge that is a little collection of questions for bloggers to answer just for fun and to get to know each other. I always look forward to chatting with friends over coffee, so pour a cup of your favorite and let's visit for a few minutes!



Here are this week's questions - and my answers - for this week's Wednesday Hodgepodge.

1.  What's one piece of advice you would give a recent or soon-to-be graduate?
 
Choose your college or career path based on what you feel called to spend your life doing, and don't feel pressured to go to college just because that's what's expected of you. And don't feel rushed into making those decisions if you're not sure yet. Now is the time to really "guard your heart" as you're starting to strike out on your own, and that doesn't just mean to be careful who you're dating! It's about guarding your mind and thought patterns and influences, because that's what will shape your life choices. 
 
2. May 15th marks the birth date of L. Frank Baum, author of The Wonderful Wizard of Oz. At this point in time are you more in need of brains, courage, heart, or a trip back home? Explain.

I could use some courage to fortify me for the task of packing up and preparing for a move. It's not that it's scaring me, but it seems overwhelming. And I'd always be up for a trip back home, but at the moment, I'm just over a month away from being together with all my kids and my parents, and the move happens first, so courage it is.

3. "There's no place like home" is an oft repeated line from Baum's book. When was the last time you felt the truth of that statement?

 Probably on our last trip "back home" to Maryland. It's so good to be there in the house where we raised our family, and where our son is now raising his family. So good to be with the family that we love so much and wish we lived closer to. But it is also good to come back home to where we live now, which is also home. It brings to mind another oft repeated line: "Home is where the heart is" and is a reminder that home is more than just a place, and can be more than just one place too.

This is home . . .

and so is this, for now . . .


4.  May is National BBQ Month . . . do you own a grill? Who does the grilling at your house? What's your favorite thing to throw on the grill? What's the last thing you grilled?

We sure do own a grill, and generally we use it quite a bit during the warmer parts of the year. My hubby is the grill master, but we tag team on a lot of the grilled meals. I prep the food, marinate or rub the meat and then hand it off to hubby to actually throw on the grill and tend while I do any meal prep that needs to be done in the kitchen. Ours is a pellet grill that is also a smoker, so we very often smoke meat as well. My favorite thing to do on the grill is burgers, because they're quick and foolproof, and I think I could eat cheeseburgers every other night and be perfectly happy. Don't get me wrong, I love steak, and kebabs (especially lamb kebabs) and brats or dogs; and I love smoked meats, but you just can't go wrong with a simple cheeseburger. I'm pretty sure burgers were the most recent thing we did on the grill, actually. We haven't had a whole lot of nice days for grilling so far this season.

5.  What's a memory you replay in your head when you need a little joy?

 I don't know that I have one specific memory I keep going back to, but happy memories like having the whole family together for a special occasion or at a vacation house doing something fun. In keeping with the theme this Hodgepodge has, the potential bittersweet of savoring those happy memories is that it might also make me a little homesick for my people.






6. Insert your own random thought here.

This past weekend the family here let me choose our Saturday adventure in honor of Mother's Day. We went to Glen Helen Nature Preserve in Yellow Springs and wound up on a slightly more challenging hike than we'd anticipated, but it was a lot of fun, and I think there was a sense of accomplishment that we did all that climbing and stream-fording. We wished there would have been a spectacular view at the apex of the trail, but that wasn't the kind of route we were on. Dinner was at Ye Olde Trail Tavern, which I'm told is the oldest restaurant in Ohio. 






What does "Home" mean to you? Leave a comment and let me know!



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With Mother's Day just past (in North America anyway) many of us have been thinking about our own mothers and our families, and hopefully reflecting on the positive experiences and feelings associated with those very important people in our lives.

Feelings of worth can flourish only in an atmosphere where individual differences are appreciated, mistakes are tolerated, communication is open, and rules are flexible - the kind of atmosphere that is found in a nurturing family. ~Virginia Satir





In family life, love is the oil that eases friction, the cement that binds closer together, and the music that brings harmony. ~Eva Burrows



Families are the compass that guide us. They are the inspiration to reach great heights, and our comfort when we occasionally falter. ~Brad Henry


I come from a great family. I've seen family life and I know how wonderful, how nurturing, and how wonderful it can be. ~Sidney Poitier


The family. We are a strange little band of characters trudging through life sharing diseases and toothpaste, coveting one another's desserts, hiding shampoo, borrowing money, locking each other out of our rooms . . . and trying to figure out the common thread that bound us all together. ~Erma Bombeck


If you have a mom, there is nowhere you are likely to go where a prayer has not already been. ~Robert Brault

Mother's Day 2019


It doesn't matter how old you are, or what you do in your life, you never stop needing your mom. ~Kate Winslet



Everybody wants to save the Earth; nobody wants to help Mom do the dishes. ~P.J. O'Rourke



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And other thoughts besides mine, and other ways of thinking. 
~Gregory Maguire~

Wednesday Quotes 2026 Themes

January 7 - Resolutions
January 21 - Motivation
February 4 - Eating Out/Restaurants
February 18 - Being Responsible
March 4 - Libraries
March 18 - Perseverance
April 1 - Simplicity
April 15 - Conquering Fear
April 29 - Making a Difference
May 13 - Family Ties
May 27 - Courage
June 10 - Teachers/Mentors
June 24 - Connecting with Nature
July 8 - Milestones
July 22 - Sunrise
August 5 - Patience
August 19 - Taking a Break/Rest
September 2 - Learning from Mistakes
September 16 - Best Friends
September 30 - Elegance
October 14 - Reaching Goals
October 28 - Dreams/Nightmares
November 11 - Integrity
November 25 - Generosity
December 9 - Beauty in Nature
December 23 - True Love

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