How hard it is to make new friends once you're an empty nester.
And this one goes back a few years for me, and is a little more specific . . . As a homeschooling mom, I was not at all prepared for how gigantic the adjustment for ME would be after my youngest graduated. It's like retiring from a long career, but there's no benefit package or recognition gifts. No party. Well, there is a party, but it's for your student, and rightfully so. But as a homeschool mom, you're out of a job, and if your social circle is largely the homeschool community, that all changes too.
My house? Maybe my bed. Or my books. That's harder to answer than I expected!
That's a very specific celebration! I will likely eat some ice cream, but it won't be peach ice cream, so I suppose I won't be celebrating. I like peaches, but they are not my favorite. I like a lot of foods made WITH peaches more than just a plain peach. So of those choices, I'd take the peach cobbler. I can't think of anything I own that is peach colored unless it's underwear or soap or something. Haha.
Trust and loyalty. In a good friendship, you can be honest with each other and you can be sure that confidences are kept and that you'd have each other's backs if necessary.
Ice cream. I do NOT like snowcones or even slushee type drinks.
Amusement park or camping . . . tough choice. I guess amusement park. I like camping but my husband doesn't, and it can be a lot of work.
Burger or hot dog . . . both?! If I have to choose just one, I'll have a burger.
Watermelon.
Sleep late. I don't get to do it often, so it's a treat and feels so luxurious!
Sunset, because I prefer to sleep late!
I feel like no one has been talking about the Olympics at all, or at least I am sadly out of the loop when it comes to the Summer Olympics this time around. I'm not even sure when and where the games are. I guess I just haven't been paying attention!
What adult problem were you unprepared for? Leave a comment and let me know!
I'm looking forward to the Olympics. I do pray there's no disruption and Paris is safe for everyone. The world is such a mess currently. The posession question was a toughie for everyone I think.
ReplyDeleteYes, I certainly hope and pray that everyone at the Olympics stays safe! Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
DeleteI also hate the sand at the beach. Otherwise I'd like it!
ReplyDeleteI'm glad I'm not alone in that! Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
DeleteI agree that it seems no one is talking about the Olympics and honestly? I don't even know when they start!
ReplyDeleteI'm not even sure how to watch this time - I might have to just catch the highlights on the web. Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
DeleteHi, I like how you answered #4.
ReplyDeleteAnd I love that song.
xx oo
Carla
Thank you - I always loved the music from Toy Story!
DeleteYour meme made me laugh out loud! It is hard enough when we hit the empty next stage, but since I didn't home school, I have never thought about how hard that time would be!! Our answers about friendship are similar -- confidentiality and honesty!!
ReplyDeleteI've seen the same meme except it says "Me, if drinking coffee was a sport" and that's also accurate! LOL Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
DeleteI like your custom headings. We were not true empty nesters. Our kids stayed home until they got married except for our daughter. But she did have 2 kids while living with us and moved out right before we sold our big home. Grandkids have been here a lot and the older two live with us 4 days a week when they are in school. I am involved with different groups at church. I am a night owl and am rarely up to see the sunrise. I plan on watching the Olympics when it starts. Enjoy the rest of your week!
ReplyDeleteOnly one of our kids moved out before getting married, and two of our young adult kids still lived with us until WE moved out! We moved out of our own nest! LOL Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
DeleteMy husband and I watch no network TV so we are really out of the Olympic loop. I can see how it would be hard when you are done homeschooling your youngest.
ReplyDeleteWe don't have network TV either, so not only am I out of the loop, but I'm not quite sure how I can watch the Olympic events that I'm interested in. Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
DeleteI have found it so hard to watch the Olympics ever since we went to streaming services a few years ago. I used to spend hours watching the events and now I hardly seem aware of them... I mean I knew they were happening later this month I've seen a few bloggers talking about them but not like it used to be. I'm hopeful to get to enjoy some viewing!
ReplyDeleteI definitely feel like it's harder to meet and make (and KEEP!) friends as an adult. We had our public school friends that we lost touch with just a few short years after being at home and I can already feel all our homeschooling friends pulling away as all the kiddos head off to college...
that's right - the Olympics is really a network TV thing and we don't have that. I always loved watching the opening and closing ceremonies and some of the events with the family. In the summer games, it was gymnastics, swimming, and diving. Hopefully I'll get to watch some of it!
DeleteIt was so surprising to me how hard it was to stay close to my homeschool mom friends once our kids graduated. I'm still good friends with those wonderful women, but our paths just don't cross as often, and that was starting to happen even before I moved away.
Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
Olympics haven't started yet so you aren't out of the loop...yet!. smile. Not only as an empty nester but it's hard making friends when you move to a new area and church. I enjoyed reading your answers. Take care...
ReplyDeleteGood to know I still have some time to figure out some kind of an Olympic viewing plan! Yes, I was really unprepared for how hard it would be to make friends as someone new to a neighborhood and church. Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
DeleteI totally agree with your answer to #1. I've been doing a little research on the Olympics as my daughter wants to watch all of the equestrian events. Since we don't have cable, looks like signing up to stream Peacock will be the way to go.
ReplyDelete