When the dog bites, when the bee stings, when I'm feeling sad, I simply remember my favorite things and then I don't feel so bad. ~Oscar Hammerstein II
When I see or hear the phrase "favorite things" I immediately think of the song from The Sound of Music. I love a lot of things that are mentioned in that song, but not all of those favorite things would be on my list. In fact, I've always found it really hard to choose just one favorite thing in any category. So how am I to write about my favorite things for this Tell Us About challenge, when it's just so hard to narrow it down?
I remembered doing a series of posts a long time ago that focused on favorites in different categories, so I dug up those archives to see if I could use them as a starting point to talk about a few of my favorite things. A lot of those were homeschool related, which isn't as personally relevant any more. I found other lists of favorite books or recipes or museums, and other things. And yes, I did find one really obvious idea for a post about favorite things.
I guess my favorite color is blue, since that's the most common color in my wardrobe and I also like it for decorating. My favorite holiday is Thanksgiving. My favorite movie . . . if I had to pick just one it would be The Princess Bride, but if I can choose a favorite holiday movie and a favorite musical and a favorite comedy . . . I'd still have to mention three or four in each subset! My favorite food is usually the last thing I ate that was delicious, so that changes all the time.
However, one food-related item that has been a favorite for years and years, and hasn't changed is coffee. It is most often my beverage of choice, is sometimes a flavor of choice, and has the status of a love language in our family. And perhaps you've noticed that it's featured on my blog!
Coffee and I have a long-standing relationship. I don't remember how old I was when I first started drinking coffee, but it was an established part of my life by the time I was in high school. I had a small group of friends that whiled away many hours together in a local restaurant that had good pie and good coffee with free refills. I settled in with another little group of friends that regularly went out for coffee and conversation during college. Lifelong friendships developed over numerous cups of coffee. And one of the college friends that enjoyed those evening coffee breaks became my husband!
Visits to his family included spending time at the family business, and we could count on someone bringing coffees from Tim Horton's whenever we were there. After we moved to the US, we missed our Tim Horton's coffees, and made sure to enjoy plenty of it whenever we visited Canada, and to bring some ground coffee back so we could have a taste of Canada at home. We were quick to notice when a few Tim Horton's coffee shops started to open in New York state, and they became a regular stop on the drive home for a visit.
Coffee has achieved the status of a love language in our family too! There was some controversy as to the magic age at which we'd allow our oldest to drink coffee, but the standard was set at 13 years old, and we have managed to turn that first official cup of coffee on the thirteenth birthday into quite a ceremony. The joke has been that our kids get their first cup of coffee instead of a bar mitzvah! It is a celebration of coming of age, and drinking coffee together is an act of solidarity and a declaration of our unity as a family. No, really. Coffee is one of the things that does bring the family together! We all love our coffee, and an evening spent together playing games or watching a show includes brewing coffee for everyone as well. Our daughter is the only family member that doesn't drink coffee, but she does enjoy time spent in local coffee shops. One highlight for me on our recent family vacation was sitting on the front porch in the morning with our sons, each of us with a fresh cup of coffee in hand.
After many years of being known as a lover of all things coffee, I wound up working at a small batch coffee roastery for a couple of years and loved it! I learned all kinds of things about coffee from choosing and blending beans, roasting, grinding, brewing, and about tasting notes. I actually got pretty good at identifying what region beans are from based on the taste of the coffee! Since one of the perks of the job was a pound of coffee every week I became quite the coffee snob! (We went through a lot more than one pound of coffee a week, but of course I got an employee discount!)
Coffee breaks have been a standard feature of my friendships since I was a teenager, and I think all my friends know that I'm always up to meet for a cup of coffee. One of my dearest friends and I had a well-established coffee break every week for a few years, so when she moved away and then I moved too, we continued our weekly coffee break conversations over the phone, in a virtual coffee break.
So when I established my first blog, Homeschool Coffee Break, the reason I chose the name is obvious, right? My standard excuse for being at the computer reading or writing blog posts or interacting on message boards was that I was "on my coffee break" so that became the name of the blog. I also was writing little reviews of books I read and some other things that weren't really related to homeschooling, so I set up a second blog, and named it Just A Second. After all, when I was caught up in a book or a blog and somebody tried to get my attention, I'd often holler "just a second!" Plus I've always been up for a second . . . or third . . . or fourth . . . cup of coffee. So more recently, with my ties to homeschool community unraveling, it only made sense that it would be time for A Fresh Cup of Coffee, so that's how this blog got its name.
It would probably be fair to conclude that coffee is a bit of an obsession, or that I'm clearly addicted to caffeine. I don't doubt that the caffeine content plays a role, but really, coffee is just one of my favorite things!
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I am not at all surprised! Funny enough none of the 5 of us enjoy coffee at all; I know my older two boys have had sips and tried it but we don't even have a coffee pot or keep coffee in the house anymore (I used to have some on hand for the grandparents whenever we had them over for dinner but none of them drink coffee in the evening anymore).
ReplyDeleteI've noticed that families tend to have the same attitude towards coffee or tea, so there's probably some connection to how often coffee is enjoyed at home when a kid is growing up. Someone should do a study! LOL Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
DeleteMy husband is the coffee drinker in our house. I love the smell of it, but I just can't make myself like the taste. I don't even like the fancy, frothy types. I do have a candle with an undernote of coffee, and since I've never been able to find it again, I burn it sparingly.
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I know quite a few people who like the smell of coffee but not the taste. I think my daughter is one of them! Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
DeleteCoffee is definitely one of my favourites! I look forward to my Nespresso Melozio with cream every day. Coffee shops don't match up to that! Thanks for joining the link-up. It's Schooldays next month, 3rd Thursday of Oct.
ReplyDeleteI think that once we've learned how to make our preferred brew to our exact specifications, a coffee shop version just isn't quite as good. I do love the coffee shop experience though. Looking forward to next month's TUA topic and I hope I'll have time to put one together! Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
DeleteI enjoyed your post Kym, but I'm not a coffee lover for some reason I've never been able to drink it preferring a nice cup of black tea. Great to read about some of your faves.
ReplyDeleteIt seems pretty rare for someone to love coffe and tea - I feel that most people prefer one and don't much care for the other. I don't often drink hot tea, but I do love iced tea. Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
DeleteNice to get to know you better through this post. Had to kind of figure you liked coffee - probably quite a bit. But it is very cool that everyone in your family also likes it a great deal. Love the 13th birthday tradition, very fun. I didn't start drinking coffee until I was anorexic and HUNGRY all the time. Then I would drink it to 'fill up.' Always, black, though. Nowadays, I love the fancy flavored coffees and hot teas - pumpkin lattes, chai but don't like the calories. So they are very rare treats.
ReplyDeleteWe had quite the little ceremony for each of the kids when they had their first cup of coffee on or near their birthday! I like fancy flavored lattes and chai as well, but I also save those for special treats. Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
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