Wednesday, July 15, 2026

Deep Summer Hodgepodge


A hodgepodge is a jumble or assortment of things that might not appear to belong together. Joyce at From This Side of the Pond hosts a weekly link-up called Wednesday Hodgepodge that is a little collection of questions for bloggers to answer just for fun and to get to know each other. I always look forward to chatting with friends over coffee, so pour a cup of your favorite and let's visit for a few minutes!



Here are this week's questions - and my answers - for this week's Wednesday Hodgepodge.

1.  "Deep summer is when laziness finds respectability." Sam Keen

Do you feel less guilty relaxing in July than you do in January? Elaborate.
 
I had to think about this, because at first it seemed like my inclination is to feel guilty about relaxing no matter the season, but that's not quite true. I feel guilty about relaxing when I am being lazy or procrastinating and there is something I should be doing but I'm just not. But that's not "relaxing" - that is being lazy. So a more thoughtful answer is that I am less inclined to feel guilty about kicking back and taking it easy in July than in January. While there may be just as much on my to-do list in either season these days, in July it's hot and humid, and taking a break to put up my feet and have a cold drink is more necessary and I do not (or should not) feel bad about resting and enjoying myself. 
 
2. What's a telltale sign you're upset?

I don't think this is noticeable to others, but when I am stressed or anxious about something my hands itch - or at least I act like they do. If I'm scratching the backs of my hands or clenching and unclenching my hands sort of reflexively, it's likely that I'm anxious or upset about something. Not necessarily upset as in angry, but a more general upset. Now that I've outed myself, anyone reading that knows me in person will probably be watching for me to do this now. haha

3. July 16th is National AI Day. What are your general thoughts and/or experiences with AI? Have you purposely used it? Does it excite you, scare you, or worry you? What do you see as a benefit? How about something relating to AI you see as a negative?

 I suspect I'm not alone in having a lot of mixed feelings about AI. I don't have a lot of experience with it, though I've used it to assist in writing some business-type communications, to search and compile information for me, and we've had some fun using the AI photo editing tools in our family messenger groups. What I like about AI and see as positive or as a benefit, is that information can be easily searched and aggregated. It is a moment's work to type a query into an AI tool and get statistics, historical data, overviews of legal documents, summaries of news stories or long articles, and more. Yes, you still should use your own common sense about the information it gives you, but with these kinds of powerful Q&A tools, there is no reason to remain ignorant or to believe lies. That said, there are aspects of AI that are deeply concerning as well. The big overarching question: Are there guardrails in place to keep AI in the place of a tool instead of becoming our "master"? There are plenty of stories circulating about AI being used to generate very convincing but fake photos and videos and the mischief people get up to. AI can be used to duplicate voices, and I know someone who came very close to being scammed by a bad actor who had sampled and duplicated a family member's voice and it was very convincing and scary. So this is an area that we as a society need to get a handle on. Like every tool, it can be used for good or for evil, and we need to deal with that reality. 

On a slightly lighter note, but still an area of concern, I wonder whether art or music or literature produced by AI will help and hamper human creativity. There's a ton of AI slop in social media, and so far it seems like AI is hit or miss in terms of producing good creative writing. We already have a lot of digital art and digital tools being used in music, but if anyone can plug some prompts into an AI tool and produce a beautiful "painting" or "photo" or quality piece of music, does that take away from the talented artists among us using their skills and their ability to earn their living in that way? I'm on the fence about that. But I will leave you with a song written using AI, "sung" by AI generated persona Solomon Ray. Personally, I love Solomon Ray music, by the way. I think the creator behind Solomon Ray, Christopher Townsend, made a strong case for how and why he uses AI with this song. 

 

4.  You're invited to a summer pot luck and are asked to bring an appetizer, salad/side, or dessert. Which category do you go for and what are you bringing?

 I used to always choose dessert if I had the option, but my favorite dessert to bring is Nanaimo Bars and if the pot luck is outdoors, the Nanaimo Bars won't fare much better than ice cream! Nowadays, I'll often bring an appetizer in the form of a charcuterie, or a salad. Either chicken salad or a Caprese salad platter.



 

5.  It wouldn't be summer without ___________________________.

 Sunshine. Hot dogs on the grill. Vacation. Baseball. 


6. Insert your own random thought here.

The last few days have not gone according to our plan. My husband developed pain from a kidney stone on Friday afternoon, spent that night and most of Saturday at the hospital, and still isn't feeling well. The surgery to remove the stone was unsuccessful, so he has to go back in about a week for another procedure. It's crazy that such a tiny pebble in the wrong place can cause so much pain! 

Are you enjoying some deep summer relax time? Leave a comment and let me know!


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6 comments:

  1. Relaxing is not a bad thing but I do feel guilty when I know I am procrastinating.
    AI can be very useful when used in the right way but I do worry when it is used negatively.
    Your potluck food looks so good, especially the salad!
    Oh no! I hope your husband is feeling better soon and the next procedure works.

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  2. Oh goodness about your husband- that is awful! I have not had kidney stones but my husband has SUFFERED severely with them in the past and yes, he marvels in a horrifying way how something so tiny can wreak such havoc/cause that much pain. I hope that stone passes or is removed quickly. I enjoyed reading your thoughtful answers about everything- from question one to the question regarding AI, your answers were really thorough and interesting. By the end of my stressful long term sub job, I had developed a hand motion that I recognized as a way of relieving stress. I did it when I was anxious/stressful and have found myself doing it a few times this summer (though not much). So I do relate to what you wrote about question 2 as well. Really enjoyed your answers!

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  3. Oh no, I'm sorry about your husband! Hope he feels better soon. I agree with your answers about AI!

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  4. I'm so sorry about your husbands kidney stones. That is miserable and I hope can be resolved soon. I liked the way you explained relaxation vs. procrastination. I think we know when we're procrastinating : ) Hope you have a great day!

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  5. Ouch! Sorry to hear about your husband's kidney stone. I’ve heard they can be incredibly painful. Poor guy! Hopefully, the medical team can help ease his pain and get that stone taken care of quickly.

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  6. Oh, I pray your husband can get rid of that stone! That is the worst. And to have a procedure fail. Ugh.

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