Right now I'm reading The Starlet Spy by Rachel Scott McDaniel and finishing up Composition As Conversation by Heather M. Hoover. I usually have at least a couple of books on the go, and the next one I have ready to start is Voice of the Ancient by Connilyn Cossette. I've been looking forward to it for so long! (For all the details on what I'm reading, see my book blog at Just A Second.)
I think it's better to have high expectations. Not unrealistic! But expectations for myself and others that are something to aspire to and to challenge me to do more and be better. My default attitude is "Expect the best, but prepare for the worst" and that has pretty much always worked out well!
Serenity is the ability to stay settled and at peace in the midst of uncertainty or chaos, and against the odds. It's hard to come by on our own. I'm pretty sure the times that I've experienced it have been only because I had a peace from the Holy Spirit to carry me through.
And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. ~Philippians 4:7
:pausing to get my purse and rummage through it for something interesting:
Well, I needed to clean out my purse anyway, so now that I've done it, I think the most interesting thing in there was this tiny keychain notebook. It was one of the little souvenirs I bought in Honduras about a dozen years ago. I found it in a box of odds and ends after we moved and thought it would be handy to have in my purse, although I've only jotted something in it once or twice.
Closing my eyes and taking a few deep breaths, imagining myself in a peaceful and comfortable place ready to go to sleep. At least that's what I do when I need to have blood drawn or an IV put in or any other medical test or procedure that makes me anxious. I have awful veins and getting blood out of me is almost as hard as getting it out of a stone! Likewise with getting an IV into a vein. And of course my anxiety about it doesn't help at all, so this was the first thing that came to mind for me needing to calm myself down. (Laughing gas was also extremely helpful when I had oral surgery a couple weeks ago!)
The Maryland "kids" were here on the long weekend and what a treat it was to spend time with them! We visited playgrounds, went swimming, and played games.
While walking back to the car after visiting our favorite book store, we happened upon Stuart Little's house.
And in keeping with the theme of my hodgepodge, here's a tranquil sunset photo from a couple days ago.
The Stuart Little house is adorable. My daughter just read that one aloud to her boys. I'm glad you had some fun family time. Enjoy the rest of your week!
ReplyDeleteI thought it was so clever of whoever lives there to make the connection and create that little door. Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
DeleteLovely sunset picture. I love being somewhere that I can watch a picturesque sunset although it doesn't happen very often and I'm not a morning person so even rarer to see a sunrise lol
ReplyDeleteI don't often get to see the sunrise any more either! I'm only a morning person out of necessity and habit. Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
DeleteA beautiful sunset as you photograph shows always makes me smile. Love the Stuart Little House...very cute.
ReplyDeleteI just love sunsets, and night skies - but the night skies are much harder to photograph! Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
DeleteFun photo of the Stuart Little house and the sweet babe! The Peace of God has helped me through a lot of experiences in my life. Glad you had a nice time with your family! Happy September to you.
ReplyDeleteSo thankful for God's peace to get me through hard times, and for all the good times too! Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
DeleteThat is a beautiful picture - I love sunsets!
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DeleteTranquility...it eludes me so often as I find myself torn between enjoying retirement and feeling like I'm missing out on something. Love the photo of the Stuart Little house with your granddaughter (?). Have a wonderful week! I invite you to join our link party on Thursday for the Weekend Traffic Jam!
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I know that feeling of wondering if I'm missing something. I bet we're not - maybe we're still just adjusting to the new circumstances? (Yes, that's my granddaughter!) Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
DeleteBeautiful sunset.
ReplyDeleteI have that same problem with IV/Blood draws! Last time I needed an IV they tried 4 different times-- with 3 different nurses and there was talk of trying it on my leg if the 4th attempt failed. That Stuart Little house is so cute!
ReplyDeleteOh no - in the leg!! They've never had to resort to that, but it's not uncommon for it to take multiple sticks in several different spots before they find a good vein. This last time was six spots in my arms/hands and two sticks, and my "record" is seven sticks. Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
DeleteI can relate to the problem with blood draws and IVs. I think that keychain notebook is so cute.
ReplyDelete:sigh: blood draws always make me anxious - I'm sorry you feel the same. Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
DeleteI love your explanations on expectations and serenity. I wish I could think of myself in a peaceful place ready to go to sleep when I'm actually in bed and my mind won't stop thinking! I love your random. Glad you had a nice time. Love the photos.
ReplyDeleteI actually have been having a lot of trouble going to sleep when I'm in bed! It's getting better but insomnia was a real problem for months. Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
DeleteI enjoyed your answers. #2 was a tough one to answer. That key chain notebook is neat.
ReplyDelete#2 was a bit of a challenge and made me think. Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
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